If there is a word for the peaks of sacrifice, i.e. mother.people infact the whole world says that mother is ultimate being and praise her without boundaries but according to me,being a mother is losing herself to the eternity.everyone says and believes that being able to produce another life is a great opportunity and very sacred boon to a woman but i say its a boon only to the MANkind.its more or less a curse to mothers.by hook or crook only they had to produce babies for the sake of their family or any reason.even if husband is willing to take the pain he can never carry a baby in his womb.that’s the most disgusting fact.
Once a girl conceive and starts another life in her she z supposed to lead a life which doesnt concern about her will and wishes.she has to be a slave for her child.there would be lot of phases for her to go through and lot of changes in her physically n mentally that she cant take control of.she cant even sleep in a proper angle according to her comfort.day by day she digs deep into the pain and lose her life in a whole.then finally her life ending event takes place where she has to give pains to expell the baby out.when she goes through all the trouble her husband sees no change at all.he eats whatever he z pleased with,goes wherever wants to,sleeps normally and breathes normally.he would take a bath,get ready and drives to the hospital and boom …..he finds his son or daughter in his hands.besides the mother goes through every inch of death to give birth.and then the other side of the coin shows its effect.taking care of the baby.
the baby has to sleep beside its mother for warmth and love and everything.even if the dad z willing to sleep beside the baby that doesn’t work.she should feed the baby as many times as it requires despite the post delivery effects.even now the same story repeats.cant eat everything,no proper sleep,no proper outfits,no proper life.the father fits in the same size of clothes since their marriage but the so-called mother changes her dressing style for a million times.as the baby grows she has to completely forget that she exists anymore.she z less than a slave now.she forgets that she has a life too.is there an alternative? If the baby should be happy and get everything required the mother has to suffer.
I dont know how god assessed the chances for man and woman regarding giving birth to a baby.the whole cycle of things happening to her through out her life z related to pregnancy.she has to suffer her entire life almost to be able to give birth.whereas man simply leads his life undisturbed compared to woman.why cant the pain and cycle of events be distributed between male and female rationally? God is definitely partial about man and completely cursed woman.
The happiness a woman gets for being a mother conceals the pain she goes through the process.but the pain definitely exists.