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Being A Girl Is No Game

What it takes to be a girl ?beauty-portrait-beautiful-spa-woman-touching-her-face-34578191 Is it patience ? Is it talent or Is it Beauty ? Actually being a girl involves more to be a beauty bearer and saviour of it.Managing the glamour of a girl lies in the way she takes care of her skin,hair and personality.So if you really want to have a beautiful look in you, here are  some tips on how u maintain it.

Skin

  • Have a healthow-make-perfect-fruit-saladhy skin by taking healthy diet which involves mostly the fruits and nuts.ofcourse taking fruits directly are not that palatable and interesting.
    But make it interesting by putting on some crisp to it.Have salads which are really colourful and increase your appetite.Have them topped with your favourite nuts or Choco chips or honey etc.

 

  • Try to apply face masks at least once in a week which does not take much time.It is highly recommended that you go for a homemade one rather than the one from cosmetics.There are a lot of easy masks which you can try for example with honey ,curd and milk .Subtle skin
  • Have your skin nourished with early morning sunrays which are lot more helpful than any other.The skin needs vitamin D for its glow and health.Have a slow walk on grass under the sun during the sunrise or before sunset.You may not find the change immediately but it does its magic with time.Besides a pleasant walk under the sun doesn’t hurt much.
  • Scrub your body once in a fortnight with natural bath powder or any which improves your blood circulation and cleans the sweat pores in the skin.It definitely adds to the glow and bring new feel to the skin.capture-21We go through all kinds of pollution and strain our skin as much as our body inside so it needs to be replenished with some energy and cleansing.Natural bath powders are the best like besan powder or the bath powder we find in the market.It should be combined with milk for better result.

 

     Hair 

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  • The most appealing feature in a girl since ages is hair.It is the dominating feature in fact which determines the charm in her.The hair is to be taken care of every alternate days if possible otherwise it starts to revolt on us by going dry and lifeless.
  • The first formula in hair care is to wash it at least every two days with a mild shampoo and then condition it with a conditioner.With my experience any average conditioner will do good.
  • When you decide to wash your hair,the first and most important thing is to apply required amount of oil on the night before if possible or a minimum of 2 to 3 hours before washing the hair.Oil is a magical therapy for hair which is easily available and can be applied easily.Though it appears to be greasy when applied,it simply revives hair to be shiny and moisturize it as needed.Personally i am a big fan of oil when it comes to hair and in fact easy treatment for hair.If it is warmed a little before applying then its perfect.Massage your scalp for at least two minutes with oil and leave it for 2 hours at least.wash the hair with shampoo later .
  • herbal-pack2Hair packs are a great boost to the hair and bumps it with shine and smoothness.The mostly used hair pack for a healthy and shiny hair is with honey,curd,lemon,amla powder,tea decoction mixed together and applied.It should be left for 1 hour or until dried and washed off as usual.Happy Hair
  • Applying oil and then hair pack does amazing things to hair.It gives glow and makes it extra smooth and shiny.
  • After washing the hair it should be dried naturally as much as possible.Drying it with heat makes it more fragile and dry and loses its shine every time.You should pat it with the towel while drying rather than rubbing it against it which increases the friction and thus makes it fragile.
  • Comb it with brush having bigger bristles so that it does not break your hair.Combing it while it is still wet makes it straight and also easy to untangle it.Remember that you should comb it very slowly without breaking it .
  • Trim your hair every now and then so that it looks healthy and well-groomed.

 

     Personality

  • Look bold and confident in whatever you wear and however your mood is.The way you look at yourself is the way you present yourself to others.Feel the beauty in you more than you look in the mirror.
  • Stand straight and lengthen your neck while walking or talking to someone ,which exposes your confidence and finally makes you look perfect .
  • If you look confident,your looks doesn’t matter at all.People will tend to respect you and pay attention.confident-woman
  • Think positive is the mostly used quote but it really works.I know it’s not that easy to implement it in our daily life but it does work.It reflects in your health and face which makes you as fit as a fiddle and beautiful.
  • Have a cup of green tea with lemon and honey.It eliminates all the toxins inside your body and enhances your charm.The taste can be overcome with honey and lemon which are as well extremely healthy.

 

On a whole life is all about how you think of it and how you work on it.Just the same is beauty and health.Nothing works without efforts and hardwork.Have a nice cup of tea or your favourite drink when depressed or upset.It revives you mentally and get over the issue quickly.If you follow the tips given regularly you will look the way you want to be and makes you healthy.

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Mother ~ Sacrifice

If there is a word for the peaks of sacrifice, i.e. mother.people infact the whole world says that mother is ultimate being and praise her without boundaries but according to me,being a mother is losing herself to the eternity.everyone says and believes that being able to produce another life is a great opportunity and very sacred boon to a woman but i say its a boon only to the MANkind.its more or less a curse to mothers.by hook or crook only they had to produce babies for the sake of their family or any reason.even if husband is willing to take the pain he can never carry a baby in his womb.that’s the most disgusting fact.
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Once a girl conceive and starts another life in her she z supposed to lead a life which doesnt concern about her will and wishes.she has to be a slave for her child.there would be lot of phases for her to go through and lot of changes in her physically n mentally that she cant take control of.she cant even sleep in a proper angle according to her comfort.day by day she digs deep into the pain and lose her life in a whole.then finally her life ending event takes place where she has to give pains to expell the baby out.when she goes through all the trouble her husband sees no change at all.he eats whatever he z pleased with,goes wherever wants to,sleeps normally and breathes normally.he would take a bath,get ready and drives to the hospital and boom …..he finds his son or daughter in his hands.besides the mother goes through every inch of death to give birth.and then the other side of the coin shows its effect.taking care of the baby.
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the baby has to sleep beside its mother for warmth and love and everything.even if the dad z willing to sleep beside the baby that doesn’t work.she should feed the baby as many times as it requires despite the post delivery effects.even now the same story repeats.cant eat everything,no proper sleep,no proper outfits,no proper life.the father fits in the same size of clothes since their marriage but the so-called mother changes her dressing style for a million times.as the baby grows she has to completely forget that she exists anymore.she z less than a slave now.she forgets that she has a life too.is there an alternative? If the baby should be happy and get everything required the mother has to suffer.

I dont know how god assessed the chances for man and woman regarding giving birth to a baby.the whole cycle of things happening to her through out her life z related to pregnancy.she has to suffer her entire life almost to be able to give birth.whereas man simply leads his life undisturbed compared to woman.why cant the pain and cycle of events be distributed between male and female rationally? God is definitely partial about man and completely cursed woman.

The happiness a woman gets for being a mother conceals the pain she goes through the process.but the pain definitely exists.

 

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being Foolish is being Human

The only character which made the sapiens versatile in the world is having wisdom.without the  differentiating power and decisiveness we would be as wild and savage as other animals are.but what is the fun in being mr perfect or mr know it all every time and everywhere when there is a lot to enjoy and perceive only with the foolishness or innocense.ofcourse each and every one would definitely be foolish knowingly to just surpass the difficulty in the situation or as i said before jus to enjoy the moment and perceive it for a while.there would be a lot of situations for us to be foolish or insane where we would never regret for being so for a while and besides we would enjoy the consequence with some sort of happiness and the feeling which make us realise that we are just the normal people as others are.

Few of the foolish acts we usually come across…………

the foolish or unclear attitude of a lover who thinks that caring his girlfriend is the only
job for his entire life shows the impact of the human instinct of foolishness on him.though he
knows at some corner that he wouldn’t be accepted by her for sure, he never tries to digest the truth but struggles in masking his insecure feeling by his extra care and attentiveness towards her needs and moves all the time.he never want to discuss even with himself the fact that she would never be his better half and survives on the ray of hope that some day would come when he would slip the ring onto his girls finger and she would accept his proposal of them getting married.maybe the chances of her agreeing his proposal are almost nil but he is not ready to miss the least chances of her approval so he continues to be foolish in believing so.that shows being foolish for a while is necessary too to get the real tinge of happiness in life.and coming to the girl, she would never avoid the guy’s attention and care though she knows that he is not the right guy.she moves  with him all around and accepts his help all the time and consciously she would let him fall deeply in love with her.thats not the energetic foolishness as supposed before but the most dramatic and
mean innocense.she doesnt want to miss the care and fun with the guy and enjoys his presence for  a while.and obviously there are chances too to get impressed by the approach and accept him as her man but it’s not fair on her part to be foolish in a mean way.

 

coming to the movies…….its the most regular and most common way of nurturing our foolishness where we find lot of pleasure and enjoy the most being so.we watch the most impossible things happen and imagine them to be real and enjoy ourselves for a while.though we know that events or things happening in the movies never comes to be real and merely impossible .we never think of that possibility and have lot of fun for the few hours we watch the film.the nonexisting world like avatar, the most eccentric person like hancock…..these are the most entertaining and pacifying dreams which is actually foolish to think of but gives a lot of fun and satisfaction as long as we watch them……

there are a lot more instances of foolishness where there is no much impact on us and happens without even our notice.we happen to watch some program in tv while we are in a hurry to go out on some important work.the program may be exciting and interesting but the work is more important and still we can’t take our eye away from the screen, we eat more than we need when its our favorite
dish and it adds up to our weight which would bother us a lot later, argue with friends on a lame topic though we are not sure if we were right or wrong,the most common example i.e, bikes on roads. its our daily experience that we see the bikes sweep the roads with great speed which is the most dangerous act of fun for guys but still they enjoy the momentary fun in going with great speed.most of the students never obey the teachers as far as possible while they still know that they would be punished  for that.

it’s not that we don’t know how to act perfect or how to avoid the problems and be in the safe zone
throughout.there are a lot of ways to show our wisdom and be tacky with things happening around but
that would fetch only a planned life with success and safe journey throughout ones life.there would
be nothing to think of and be reminiscent about and laugh with lot of satisfaction later.we are
always happy with things which would make a lot of memories in future and give sweet tingle when
we think of them but not the planned and perfect things which would tag the success but not the real
happiness for us.the most suitable and available time for a person to be foolish and make mistakes
with awareness is the adolescence where we would learn a lot from them and enjoy the life at a time.
because we would have a lot of chances to correct ourselves and learn a lot.being straight and leading
a placid life would leave a gist of nothing when u think of your past.so better act foolish and
show the innocence when possible and add the real essence to your life…….

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Most Horrifying moment of my life……

I never thought I would get a day so early in my life where I would worry so much about my parents. As I got used to be protected and be taken care of by mom so far, I dint understand what to do when I got a situation where I have to nurse my mom in contrast to the usual.I almost got worried to the peak to see my mom so helpless and out of control and faced lot of dilemma as to what to do with her at the very moment and panicked for a while besides seeming to be strong to her to assure her that nothing is going to happen to her though I dint know exactly what is wrong with her.

 

It was on april 21st morning when i was preparing for my semister exams with lot of pressure due to the uncovered syllabus and lot of tension.Similar to the past week i was holding my book in hands and trying to peruse as many pages as possible to blindly pacify myself and pretend that I have completed lot of topics for the exam.My mom woke up earlier than me to prepare lunch for my dad for the following afternoon as usual.Usually she faces a lot of trouble to wake up early in the morning as she just loves the early hours of the day to sleep peacefully just like me.So she woke up with lot of trouble that day complaining that she had a reeling sensation while waking up.Dad and myself thought that it’s the same phenomenon she comes across during the early hours so we dint mind her comment much and continued with our works.Somehow she packed everything for dad and dad left to his office which takes almost 3 hours of journey and he can’t come back for two more days.So after dad left mom settled on the bed to have 2 more hours of her precious sleep which i was observing while studying.Then suddenly our watchman rang the door bell and i was about to get up from my chair to attend the door and that is when the most horrifying moment came into the picture.My mom told me not to get disturbed and got up from the bed to open the door and she simply collapsed back on the bed still being awake.I was not actually that shocked because she sometimes acts as if falling down or moving all of a sudden to threaten me so i scolded her for doing so as it might give any neck pain or backaches.But she tried to get up slowly without answering me and she fell back the same way and this time i was alarmed about her unusual behaviour and went beside her to confirm what is actually happening to her.Then she gathered the whole courage to explain me about her position that she is not able to wake up or move her head even a bit and she is feeling like something is banging her head back with lot of force.Then i realised that she was affected physically very badly and couldn’t figure out what it was.Dad left half an hour back and i was all left alone at home with mom so dint have and idea what to do next.mom was speaking normal and able to think normal but not having a chance to lift her head or move and is having a lot of reeling sensation.then i tried lot of times to raise her to her feet but she was falling back very badly and we dint try to do that again.i called upon my dad immediately and by gods grace he dint get into his bus yet so he headed back home as soon as i called him.meanwhile we are thinking of moms position and what to do with her.she is not able to stand or move her head and to see a doctor she has to come out of the house.even to call an ambulance we dint know if it’s a big problem or just a reaction due to work or weakness so as soon as dad came he went to the nearest doctor whom we are well acquainted with but she is not here in her clinic and we were in dilemma what to do with moms condition so on the way back to home dad asked the nearest pharmacist for a suggestion and he told that i might be due to drop in her blood pressure so asked us to give salt water along with her usual bp tablets but it dint work too and we had to do something before the situation goes worse.so finally we called upon our family doctor saying that it’s an emergency call.luckily the receptionist transferred the call to the doctor and dad explained the whole condition to him and he gave a tablet name and told to give to her immediately and asked to bring her in the evening and assured that everything is going to be normal.then we are relieved a bit to hear that nothing is there to panic.dad got the tablet and gave it to her and slowly mom fell asleep.

 

i was totally shocked and couldn’t take the situation so easy to heart.i never saw mom so helpless and physically out of control and seeking for a support so badly.she is the one who takes care of us all the time and attends everyone in the family whoever gets hospitalised and nurses them so well and manages so well just like a doctor.i always wonder how she knows very well as how to care of a patient and how to feed them like an experienced doctor.but all of a sudden i saw her in the place of a patient rather than being a doctor to my family.i am in a state of confusion and worried a lot about her in addition to my worries about my exams.but once she sees me panicking for her she would start imagining that something worse is going to happen to her so i had to hide all my tensions and worries with a cool face and assure her that it’s just a small reaction in her body and nothing to worry at all.she believes that i know everything about medicine and diseases so i pretended that it might be due to the attack of diabetes or thyroid or something but not more than that.though she is totally terrified by the reeling sensation and not being able to get up she tried to believe my words and tried to calm down.on one side im worried about her condition and on the other side dint understand if i had to forgo my exams as there are only two days left for them to start.i cant leave my mom in hospital if she had to be admitted as i was sure that something big has attacked her and thought it was a major problem then. she cures faster if all of us stay beside her and comfort her in all the ways so i thought i am going to skip this semester for sure.i prayed to god that nothing big should happen to mom and i am ready to forgo my exams for that.from the moment i saw mom collapsing like that everything went blank to me and couldn’t believe the truth she is growing weak in health and its time to take good care of her.

 

later she woke up in the afternoon after taking the tablet and felt the same as before so we took her to the hospital with lot of struggle without causing much pain to her and with lot of measures.she tried a lot to help us to take her to hosp.then the doctor directed the staff to do all the tests required and inform him.then the doctor concluded that it’s all because of high count of lipids in blood that she collapsed so badly all of a sudden and its a very common problem nowadays.we got great relief to hear those words and felt like thousands of tonnes of weight is heaved off our heads.we brought her home and continued the tablets and she started to feel better after few hours.i started to prepare for my exams attending her every minute without fail.she recovered soon within few days and i felt happy to see her be back to normal.

 

the moment i saw her in her worst situation that day, i decided that i would never disobey her or hurt her in any way at any cost.i felt that she deserves a lot of attention of mine and need to satisfy her always.i thought the time has come where me and my brother should be attentive about mom and dad as they are growing old and physically ill day by day.they made countless sacrifices for us and never thought about themselves so far.so we are the parents now and should be careful with their every movement and love them as much as possible and show it to them as it’s the best medicine to parents they could ever be treated with for any disease or disorder.just a hint of assurance and the loving presence of children are the best medicines to them which would pass them through any kind of illness mentally or physically.i realised and experienced that for the first time with my parents and i strongly believe that it would be the last that any of them would suffer such a kind of day in our lives.

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Sorry dale………

I recently read a book called “how to win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnegie. It’s all about dealing with people and their mentalities and involves the ways to improve a good relationship with them.It shows ample of examples regarding the problems we face while interacting with  different personalities and also gives the solutions for them.It counsels us so well and show us  a way to impress people and get close to them.it’s not only useful for business executives and salesman or working people but also for students to mingle with others and gain friends………….

But how far is it right to follow those ways and get close to people???of course its the best way
to follow this book for working people and business executives who makes deals with
companies for those relations which does not involve anything personal.

I strongly believe that this book does not help for having a good relation with friends.Because it clearly says that you should never show your real attitude or character to others.It continuously says cheat others pretend your nature impress them by masking yourself and fool them finally.Its not fair and healthy for a good relationship.Friends are the ones to whom you can show your real character and nature.If you ought to conceal everything and impress them whats the use of having such a blind fragile relation which is not at all true.

Suppose two people follow the book and hide their real characters and mask them with all the qualities suggested in the book.Very frequently they have to fight with each other because at various points they have to show their real nature and they can’t digest that and obviously it leads to a fight.When you can’t show what you are near your friends too there is no point in making friends at all.

I seriously rebuke the philosophy in the book because one can’t keep pretending his character and be happy with people around especially with  friends.So the title of the book does not make any justice to the book.

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Do I Have “ENEMIES”????……..Strange!!!

Yes it seems so strange to me to find people hating me.Till now I have never found anyone hating me or criticizing me as far as my knowledge z concerned. I never hurt anyone or make them feel sick of my presence.I am always conscious n cautious about it.So i never failed so far in that
point but recently I came to know that without our knowledge n involvement things happen and we get affected and had to face the consequences.As i got used to compliments n supporting statements from everyone I came across til now, it seemed so strange to see people hating me  so much n cursing me for every deed of mine. I came across many opinions of my friends n well
wishers that I appear to be headstrong and arrogant but I never cared them because my intentions never reflect my appeal and it’s not my mistake.But even this misperception of people about my attitude added to my fate and made people hate me more than they can do.It took really a good
amount of time to digest the fact but I got to know many things from this event of my life.

I understood that people are not all the same always.they change with time and its  not their mistake.
Sometimes even a small word from ones mouth leads to hard situations like
misunderstandings and rumours.
Having a conflict and arguing with someone is like putting ourselves into a quicksand n trying to find a good support to get out of it.
Never show our feelings or aggression to someone who can’t understand and are not worthy to take them.

Accident may happen even if others take a wrong step and we might pay for it.
Happiness doesn’t come only if u understand others but others should also be able to understand us.
Never bother about someone who are not worth of your attention.It gives
unwanted pain and strain.
Try to realise that what you see is not the only thing happening around you.there are  many secrets hiding behind you always.

Of course I am happy to realise many things from the situations I have been in and  learnt a lot.I am thankful to god for showing me my enemies and teaching me how to face them.
In fact the so-called enemies are the ones who don’t let us commit any mistakes n lead us in a proper path.We don’t easily make mistakes in their presence fearing of their criticism and mockery.I am correcting myself from their observations and allegations.My dad told me that
people never reach our expectations and its our mere mistake to expect from them.Thats true and I am learning it practically now.So far I have learnt enough from my college life and still
learning. I hope I will learn much more without anymore being affected……………….

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check YOURSELF……..

According to my opinion n knowledge a meaningful person has to possess the following characters n qualities which would always enhance their success n mark their position in the world as unique…………

1.should always try to be clear of our thoughts n attitude which will help us to stay out of confusion.

2.should never try to pretend things n manipulate even for the sake of the good of others.such qualities would destruct the trust n confidence of others on us.

3.should help others n attend their problems without ourselves being affected.should look ones safety before being a helping hand to others.

4.should respect others n understand n accept their views though we are not congruent with their opinions.

5.should perceive things as they are n never cheat ourselves imagining things n knowing the truth subconsciously.

6.should think thousand times before believing something against others n criticizing them.

7.should never hurt or corner others feelings which we feel that it pains a lot when its in our case.

8.always be good as long as possible n untill we are conscious n awake.

……………………..above all jus be the way with others in the way u expect  them to be with u.

i am totally confident that above qualities would help a person to the peak to have good relationship with others n have a good n satisfied life in this society.i follow them thoroughly n always try to make up myself up to the mark and be happy without disturbing others in any way.