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being Foolish is being Human

The only character which made the sapiens versatile in the world is having wisdom.without the  differentiating power and decisiveness we would be as wild and savage as other animals are.but what is the fun in being mr perfect or mr know it all every time and everywhere when there is a lot to enjoy and perceive only with the foolishness or innocense.ofcourse each and every one would definitely be foolish knowingly to just surpass the difficulty in the situation or as i said before jus to enjoy the moment and perceive it for a while.there would be a lot of situations for us to be foolish or insane where we would never regret for being so for a while and besides we would enjoy the consequence with some sort of happiness and the feeling which make us realise that we are just the normal people as others are.

Few of the foolish acts we usually come across…………

the foolish or unclear attitude of a lover who thinks that caring his girlfriend is the only
job for his entire life shows the impact of the human instinct of foolishness on him.though he
knows at some corner that he wouldn’t be accepted by her for sure, he never tries to digest the truth but struggles in masking his insecure feeling by his extra care and attentiveness towards her needs and moves all the time.he never want to discuss even with himself the fact that she would never be his better half and survives on the ray of hope that some day would come when he would slip the ring onto his girls finger and she would accept his proposal of them getting married.maybe the chances of her agreeing his proposal are almost nil but he is not ready to miss the least chances of her approval so he continues to be foolish in believing so.that shows being foolish for a while is necessary too to get the real tinge of happiness in life.and coming to the girl, she would never avoid the guy’s attention and care though she knows that he is not the right guy.she moves  with him all around and accepts his help all the time and consciously she would let him fall deeply in love with her.thats not the energetic foolishness as supposed before but the most dramatic and
mean innocense.she doesnt want to miss the care and fun with the guy and enjoys his presence for  a while.and obviously there are chances too to get impressed by the approach and accept him as her man but it’s not fair on her part to be foolish in a mean way.

 

coming to the movies…….its the most regular and most common way of nurturing our foolishness where we find lot of pleasure and enjoy the most being so.we watch the most impossible things happen and imagine them to be real and enjoy ourselves for a while.though we know that events or things happening in the movies never comes to be real and merely impossible .we never think of that possibility and have lot of fun for the few hours we watch the film.the nonexisting world like avatar, the most eccentric person like hancock…..these are the most entertaining and pacifying dreams which is actually foolish to think of but gives a lot of fun and satisfaction as long as we watch them……

there are a lot more instances of foolishness where there is no much impact on us and happens without even our notice.we happen to watch some program in tv while we are in a hurry to go out on some important work.the program may be exciting and interesting but the work is more important and still we can’t take our eye away from the screen, we eat more than we need when its our favorite
dish and it adds up to our weight which would bother us a lot later, argue with friends on a lame topic though we are not sure if we were right or wrong,the most common example i.e, bikes on roads. its our daily experience that we see the bikes sweep the roads with great speed which is the most dangerous act of fun for guys but still they enjoy the momentary fun in going with great speed.most of the students never obey the teachers as far as possible while they still know that they would be punished  for that.

it’s not that we don’t know how to act perfect or how to avoid the problems and be in the safe zone
throughout.there are a lot of ways to show our wisdom and be tacky with things happening around but
that would fetch only a planned life with success and safe journey throughout ones life.there would
be nothing to think of and be reminiscent about and laugh with lot of satisfaction later.we are
always happy with things which would make a lot of memories in future and give sweet tingle when
we think of them but not the planned and perfect things which would tag the success but not the real
happiness for us.the most suitable and available time for a person to be foolish and make mistakes
with awareness is the adolescence where we would learn a lot from them and enjoy the life at a time.
because we would have a lot of chances to correct ourselves and learn a lot.being straight and leading
a placid life would leave a gist of nothing when u think of your past.so better act foolish and
show the innocence when possible and add the real essence to your life…….

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Most Horrifying moment of my life……

I never thought I would get a day so early in my life where I would worry so much about my parents. As I got used to be protected and be taken care of by mom so far, I dint understand what to do when I got a situation where I have to nurse my mom in contrast to the usual.I almost got worried to the peak to see my mom so helpless and out of control and faced lot of dilemma as to what to do with her at the very moment and panicked for a while besides seeming to be strong to her to assure her that nothing is going to happen to her though I dint know exactly what is wrong with her.

 

It was on april 21st morning when i was preparing for my semister exams with lot of pressure due to the uncovered syllabus and lot of tension.Similar to the past week i was holding my book in hands and trying to peruse as many pages as possible to blindly pacify myself and pretend that I have completed lot of topics for the exam.My mom woke up earlier than me to prepare lunch for my dad for the following afternoon as usual.Usually she faces a lot of trouble to wake up early in the morning as she just loves the early hours of the day to sleep peacefully just like me.So she woke up with lot of trouble that day complaining that she had a reeling sensation while waking up.Dad and myself thought that it’s the same phenomenon she comes across during the early hours so we dint mind her comment much and continued with our works.Somehow she packed everything for dad and dad left to his office which takes almost 3 hours of journey and he can’t come back for two more days.So after dad left mom settled on the bed to have 2 more hours of her precious sleep which i was observing while studying.Then suddenly our watchman rang the door bell and i was about to get up from my chair to attend the door and that is when the most horrifying moment came into the picture.My mom told me not to get disturbed and got up from the bed to open the door and she simply collapsed back on the bed still being awake.I was not actually that shocked because she sometimes acts as if falling down or moving all of a sudden to threaten me so i scolded her for doing so as it might give any neck pain or backaches.But she tried to get up slowly without answering me and she fell back the same way and this time i was alarmed about her unusual behaviour and went beside her to confirm what is actually happening to her.Then she gathered the whole courage to explain me about her position that she is not able to wake up or move her head even a bit and she is feeling like something is banging her head back with lot of force.Then i realised that she was affected physically very badly and couldn’t figure out what it was.Dad left half an hour back and i was all left alone at home with mom so dint have and idea what to do next.mom was speaking normal and able to think normal but not having a chance to lift her head or move and is having a lot of reeling sensation.then i tried lot of times to raise her to her feet but she was falling back very badly and we dint try to do that again.i called upon my dad immediately and by gods grace he dint get into his bus yet so he headed back home as soon as i called him.meanwhile we are thinking of moms position and what to do with her.she is not able to stand or move her head and to see a doctor she has to come out of the house.even to call an ambulance we dint know if it’s a big problem or just a reaction due to work or weakness so as soon as dad came he went to the nearest doctor whom we are well acquainted with but she is not here in her clinic and we were in dilemma what to do with moms condition so on the way back to home dad asked the nearest pharmacist for a suggestion and he told that i might be due to drop in her blood pressure so asked us to give salt water along with her usual bp tablets but it dint work too and we had to do something before the situation goes worse.so finally we called upon our family doctor saying that it’s an emergency call.luckily the receptionist transferred the call to the doctor and dad explained the whole condition to him and he gave a tablet name and told to give to her immediately and asked to bring her in the evening and assured that everything is going to be normal.then we are relieved a bit to hear that nothing is there to panic.dad got the tablet and gave it to her and slowly mom fell asleep.

 

i was totally shocked and couldn’t take the situation so easy to heart.i never saw mom so helpless and physically out of control and seeking for a support so badly.she is the one who takes care of us all the time and attends everyone in the family whoever gets hospitalised and nurses them so well and manages so well just like a doctor.i always wonder how she knows very well as how to care of a patient and how to feed them like an experienced doctor.but all of a sudden i saw her in the place of a patient rather than being a doctor to my family.i am in a state of confusion and worried a lot about her in addition to my worries about my exams.but once she sees me panicking for her she would start imagining that something worse is going to happen to her so i had to hide all my tensions and worries with a cool face and assure her that it’s just a small reaction in her body and nothing to worry at all.she believes that i know everything about medicine and diseases so i pretended that it might be due to the attack of diabetes or thyroid or something but not more than that.though she is totally terrified by the reeling sensation and not being able to get up she tried to believe my words and tried to calm down.on one side im worried about her condition and on the other side dint understand if i had to forgo my exams as there are only two days left for them to start.i cant leave my mom in hospital if she had to be admitted as i was sure that something big has attacked her and thought it was a major problem then. she cures faster if all of us stay beside her and comfort her in all the ways so i thought i am going to skip this semester for sure.i prayed to god that nothing big should happen to mom and i am ready to forgo my exams for that.from the moment i saw mom collapsing like that everything went blank to me and couldn’t believe the truth she is growing weak in health and its time to take good care of her.

 

later she woke up in the afternoon after taking the tablet and felt the same as before so we took her to the hospital with lot of struggle without causing much pain to her and with lot of measures.she tried a lot to help us to take her to hosp.then the doctor directed the staff to do all the tests required and inform him.then the doctor concluded that it’s all because of high count of lipids in blood that she collapsed so badly all of a sudden and its a very common problem nowadays.we got great relief to hear those words and felt like thousands of tonnes of weight is heaved off our heads.we brought her home and continued the tablets and she started to feel better after few hours.i started to prepare for my exams attending her every minute without fail.she recovered soon within few days and i felt happy to see her be back to normal.

 

the moment i saw her in her worst situation that day, i decided that i would never disobey her or hurt her in any way at any cost.i felt that she deserves a lot of attention of mine and need to satisfy her always.i thought the time has come where me and my brother should be attentive about mom and dad as they are growing old and physically ill day by day.they made countless sacrifices for us and never thought about themselves so far.so we are the parents now and should be careful with their every movement and love them as much as possible and show it to them as it’s the best medicine to parents they could ever be treated with for any disease or disorder.just a hint of assurance and the loving presence of children are the best medicines to them which would pass them through any kind of illness mentally or physically.i realised and experienced that for the first time with my parents and i strongly believe that it would be the last that any of them would suffer such a kind of day in our lives.

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CHILLING FUN WITH CHUMS

The most hectic happiness in my life

Yes that’s true……I enjoyed with lot of pain but still managed to extract the best from my tour to manali.Our college planned a tour on dec 31st which included many places from vizag to manali.Two of our lecturers in my college suggested us to propose for an industrial tour so that we would make it in our 3rd year itself rather than struggling in 4th year to adjust time for it.So few of our classmates  approached our principal and asked to conduct a college tour.To our surprise the most unpredictable person of our college agreed to our proposal and asked us to suggest the places too.we were delighted for the unexpected surprise and started to plan our tour.we took a very good amount of time to select the places and catch a proper travels for our tour.after a long set of discussions and ideas we decided to visit 5 places in 12 days.the places are Amritsar,manali,Chandigarh,Delhi,agra.our college engaged a travelling agent to
us and the travels took care of the tickets and the arrangements for our trip………..

days were rolling down and we are totally excited about the tour.meanwhile we went through our 3-1 semester holding the excitement in us.exams got over and our preparations for the tour started.we got ready with all the woollens and the necessities required.finally the auspicious day arrived and we reached the railway station with our parents.

I was totally excited about the tour as I have never been to such a long tour away from my parents for such a long time.I have been dreaming about this trip for quite a long time.I was never away from my mom and never managed things on my own without my family presence.so I was swinging with lot of emotions till the tour started……….

i reached the station with mom and dad and of course with munna on phone.all our friends one by reached the station and we were all in the same excitement.after everyone came we celebrated one of our classmate kanthis birthday in station.so our trip started off with her birthday and its dec 31st night 12’o clock.
wished all our family members and relatives a very happy new year and we bid our farewell to our parents for 12 days with lot of excitement and of course with little bit of pain in heart that we are going to miss them for a while.so our new year 2011 started with our college tour.

we settled in our places with our luggage and started our fun together. chatted with each other and occupied our berths to sleep.woke up in the morning the next day and had some coffee after fresh up.as we packed ourselves enough food for two days in train dint struggle much for it in the journey.we were moving a lot in the train throughout the day and had lot of fun.i stood near the door with my friends and waved to everyone and enjoyed the puzzling faces they keep for our gestures.we laughed like hell and played a lot.the following night was a bit hectic and couldn’t withstand the cold while crossing UP.all of us woke for the chilled air in the train and had our woollens on but still couldn’t bare the cold.so we sat for a while and spoke to the guard who was sitting in our compartment.the journey got over and we reached the Amritsar station and met the travels agent who was ready with the tourism vehicle.

we reached the rhandwa international hotel at late night and relaxed in our rooms.morning everyone got ready with ourselves and  went to golden temple which is splendid to see but I shivered a lot on the floor and struggled even to stand for a while on it.dint go inside the temple as we are in lack of time and went to jallianwala bagh which took two minutes walk to reach from the temple.the bullet marks were marked very well on the walls and the massacre is seen on the pictures which were displayed on the walls.felt bad thinking of the fear of the people who were trapped in that place by the fiends of british army.

then later in the evening went to wagah border which was one of the highlights of our tour.we were late to the parade so unfortunately missed the initial marching of the border soldiers but still managed to catch an eye of the hoisting of the flags.we took photos with the service men and later started off to manali in our bus.the journey took quite a long time and I was totally exhausted during the night.i have the sensation of vomiting throughout the journey but still controlled myself by changing my sitting
position in bus with lot of struggle.its the most hectic journey in the tour.

I felt like its been ages sitting in the bus waiting to reach the hotel.once we reached the hotel i
felt like I have been out of my world and dint want to stay anymore.there is no exaggeration in saying that I even thought of returning back to vizag immediately if there is an airport nearby.my toes literally burned a lot and I was not able to walk anymore.my friends got my luggage to my room and I stuck to bed for a long time not being able to thrust any force on my toes.slowly I managed to get ready and went to the restaurant of the hotel and have my breakfast.later we went to the snow point on cabs and the roads were totally covered by snow all the way.we enjoyed the views of the snow-covered peaks and their beauty.then we hired the snow suits near the valley and played in snow for a long time.as i have never seen snow or touched it so far in real,i happened to perceive each and every moment of my presence there.i couldnt play much with it because of the burning sensation inside but enjoyed watching
my friends playing like kids in the snow.we hit each other with snow balls and had long walks in the snow up the valley.finally while getting down few of us struggled a lot with our legs and managed to reach the cabs with the help of our lecturers.unfortunately its been late coming down the valley so we couldn’t go to solang valley where we planned to do skewing,bike riding and parachute gliding.it was a bit disappointing but got satisfied with the fun we had in the snow.the following night we had fun with everyone in the lounge and danced and made some moves together.the next day was the most memorable day in my life.i had the most thrilling experience i.e,rafting.we reached the rafting point and had our life jackets and helmets on.i dint hesitate a bit to take the risk of rafting as there is no restriction at the very moment and enjoyed the freedom of taking the decision and got ready for the thrill.we got into the boats in groups and i occupied a boat with 5 of my friends.the guy who escorted us in the boat is a very nice person and entertained us a lot.the ride is for 7 kms and i enjoyed with the rest for 5 kms
and then  started to shiver with lot of pain in my veins all over.I coudnt literally bear the pain and could not even withstand a slight touch on my hands.we need to hold the ropes on the sides in order to balance on the boat but i was not able to hold the ropes anymore.if not positioned properly in the boat I might fall in the chilled water which is damn cool and I would freeze to death or the boat might tumble-down and everyone would enjoy the same biting coldness in water.so i was put in dilemma and finally followed the instructions of the escort and held the rope tightly and started to cry bitterly in order to balance the pain in my palms.my friends tried to console me all the way and we reached the end point and got down the boat.after a while i got back to normal and started to think of the fun we had in the boat and forgot all the pain i had till then.we went to kulu for some shopping and returned back to rafting point.had our dinner in the restaurant there and gathered near the camp fire that we got as a complimentary by the tourism people.we ran across 3 pups there  and they were so cute and sweet.we played with them for a while and had some snaps with them.we had a musical campfire and all of us danced for the songs around the fire and enjoyed a lot.i have never danced like that so far and i enjoyed it a lot.then we started back to Chandigarh in bus.

reached Chandigarh and checked in the hotel in the morning.got ready and went to niper which is one of the reputed institute of pharmacy in india.it is vast and the labs are well equipped and very inspiring.while we were looking at the labs two of our friends fell ill and we panicked for a while and sent them into the bus to rest for a while.I happened to cry thrice in the university because of a crazy idiot and for shouting at my friend.felt like being at home and dropped a tear but as usual surrendered to my friends cheer up and got back to normal.then in the evening reached the rock garden.it was a kind of  maze which was built-in olden times and all of our friends enjoyed searching way back to the entrance. we separated in groups and struggled to come out of it.it was so exciting and a bit scary as it was dark by the time we got into it.we were able to hear the voices but not able to find the way out.I  enjoyed the walk in it and with the help of my lecturer we came out and the went for shopping.it was a very big mart where we get all the kinds of stuff at cheaper rate.we spread into it and had our shopping together.the most exciting moment and one of my wish got done here.since the moment i saw aparichitudu
movie I always wish that I would cross the road without my attention like vikram did in the movie.i told my friends about my wish and surprisingly one of my friends made me cross the road closing my eyes.i felt very happy for my wish has been fulfilled.later reached the hotel and slept well to revive for the next days excitement and fun.

morning started back to Delhi and went straight to Andhra Bhavan canteen where we had our lunch.then went to our hotel which was very small with compact rooms.luckily we got a better room and settled in for a while.evening went to Karol bagh and had some shopping there and came back.the next day we went to akshardam on metro express which is the fastest train in india.there I had a funny incident where I was shocked for a while and later burst into laughter with my friends.we were standing in the train commenting the people around in Telugu with lot of confidence that they wouldn’t understand our language.after a while I happened to observe a guy standing near us and i thought of making a funny comment on his face pretending as if i was talking to my friend beside him.all of a sudden he looked at me and asked us if
we were from vizag in Telugu.I was totally dumbfounded in shock.i dint expect him to be a person knowing telugu by his appearance.when i told my friends about the situation we all laughed like hell thinking of the consequence if i had made the comment.we reached akshardam and went through all the temples and had some shopping in it.the sculptures and art are outstanding and enjoyed visiting it.later went to  india gate where we took many photos with all the friends and then visited the lotus temple.it was nice to watch it in real but dint go inside as it was too cool there and came back to bus.then evening went to palika bazaar which is a underground market.we had lot of shopping together and enjoyed a lot.the people near the shops seemed to be funny making all funny gestures and calling everyone into their shops. i thought of getting tattooed along with a friend as it’s in my wish list but dint do that
fearing of infections we get later.then we struggled for a long time to find the way back to our bus and was funny too.we retraced the same path and went round the place once again and finally got the way.we had our supper in a motel nearby and came back to the hotel.

started off to Agra and on the way went to Mathura temple.i dint find it much interesting but felt nice to go around and watch the idols of all gods.later reached Agra by train and the hotel we lodged here was pretty interesting as our rooms were on terrace with lot of place in the front.the balconies were interconnected and we jumped from one room to other and had fun.night went to a hotel by walk and had nonveg food after a long time.there my friend forgot her handbag with a camera and money in it in the bus and noticed it after getting into the hotel.then one of our lecturers along with a couple of boys went into the bus and called us back saying that the bag is not found.then we were startled for a while and ran back to the bus.then to our surprise found them coming with the bag.we were shocked and shouted with joy that it was found.my friend was happy to find her bag back and our sir warned her smoothly not to
leave away things like that.its sweet to have such lecturers with us.then we walked back to our hotel at 12 in the night.I really enjoyed the walk as i usually love lonely walks on the roads at nights.the next morning we went to taj mahal the symbol of love.it was wonderful with all the glory of shahjahan’s motive in building it  for mumtaz.i was astonished for the wonderful work of people who built it and enjoyed the walk through the mahal.we had a guide with who was very funny in his words and actions.he lead the way and explained everything about the place and the mahal.we had a group photo with all the friends who came to the tour with taj mahal as a background.while taking the photo two of our classmates missed us and we found them back after getting the photo to our hands.they came back without much panic so dint had much fuss about them.then after having lunch we planned to go to Agra fort but it was closed by then so returned back to hotel.night went to pizza hut and had some stuff.later  everyone returned back to the hotel and played dum charades with names of places.we had fun together on the last night of our tour.we played so well and enjoyed very well.then returned back to our rooms.actually all our friends planned a lot to enjoy in our rooms during nights but we never got a chance to
spend much time with friends.we use to return to rooms at late night and get tired a lot.so we were not able to stay awake after returning to rooms.in the mornings we wake up late and get ready hurriedly and come out so we dint find much time to play in rooms as we planned before.atleast i am happy that we played for a while on the last night of our tour.

the next morning we reached the railway station and started back to vizag.the journey started and we were a bit unhappy that the tour got over and everyone started to grow dull but later we played all the way and had fun again.the most luckiest thing is there were no mishaps in the whole trip except for the delay we had in the return journey.there were some rallys and strikes going on and we were late for nearly 7 hours and it made us feel bored with the journey.finally we reached vizag at night 2am of 12th january.munna came to the station and I am back home after 12 days of fun and frolic.

its been immense fun to me going to the tour as i have never been away from home till now.i enjoyed the freedom very much and utilised each and every moment of the tour to have fun.i found lot of time to spend with my loving friends and i got close with them as ever.i felt that it would have been nice if we had this tour in the first year so that we would have got a good relation  with friends.i enjoyed the taste of facing problems with dear ones and enjoy the pain too with happiness.we were all together all the way supporting each other and perceiving the likes and dislikes of each other.its lovely to have fun throughout the day with friends and spend such a good amount of time together.i oweyou a lot buddies……….love you guys……..

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Sorry dale………

I recently read a book called “how to win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnegie. It’s all about dealing with people and their mentalities and involves the ways to improve a good relationship with them.It shows ample of examples regarding the problems we face while interacting with  different personalities and also gives the solutions for them.It counsels us so well and show us  a way to impress people and get close to them.it’s not only useful for business executives and salesman or working people but also for students to mingle with others and gain friends………….

But how far is it right to follow those ways and get close to people???of course its the best way
to follow this book for working people and business executives who makes deals with
companies for those relations which does not involve anything personal.

I strongly believe that this book does not help for having a good relation with friends.Because it clearly says that you should never show your real attitude or character to others.It continuously says cheat others pretend your nature impress them by masking yourself and fool them finally.Its not fair and healthy for a good relationship.Friends are the ones to whom you can show your real character and nature.If you ought to conceal everything and impress them whats the use of having such a blind fragile relation which is not at all true.

Suppose two people follow the book and hide their real characters and mask them with all the qualities suggested in the book.Very frequently they have to fight with each other because at various points they have to show their real nature and they can’t digest that and obviously it leads to a fight.When you can’t show what you are near your friends too there is no point in making friends at all.

I seriously rebuke the philosophy in the book because one can’t keep pretending his character and be happy with people around especially with  friends.So the title of the book does not make any justice to the book.

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Do I Have “ENEMIES”????……..Strange!!!

Yes it seems so strange to me to find people hating me.Till now I have never found anyone hating me or criticizing me as far as my knowledge z concerned. I never hurt anyone or make them feel sick of my presence.I am always conscious n cautious about it.So i never failed so far in that
point but recently I came to know that without our knowledge n involvement things happen and we get affected and had to face the consequences.As i got used to compliments n supporting statements from everyone I came across til now, it seemed so strange to see people hating me  so much n cursing me for every deed of mine. I came across many opinions of my friends n well
wishers that I appear to be headstrong and arrogant but I never cared them because my intentions never reflect my appeal and it’s not my mistake.But even this misperception of people about my attitude added to my fate and made people hate me more than they can do.It took really a good
amount of time to digest the fact but I got to know many things from this event of my life.

I understood that people are not all the same always.they change with time and its  not their mistake.
Sometimes even a small word from ones mouth leads to hard situations like
misunderstandings and rumours.
Having a conflict and arguing with someone is like putting ourselves into a quicksand n trying to find a good support to get out of it.
Never show our feelings or aggression to someone who can’t understand and are not worthy to take them.

Accident may happen even if others take a wrong step and we might pay for it.
Happiness doesn’t come only if u understand others but others should also be able to understand us.
Never bother about someone who are not worth of your attention.It gives
unwanted pain and strain.
Try to realise that what you see is not the only thing happening around you.there are  many secrets hiding behind you always.

Of course I am happy to realise many things from the situations I have been in and  learnt a lot.I am thankful to god for showing me my enemies and teaching me how to face them.
In fact the so-called enemies are the ones who don’t let us commit any mistakes n lead us in a proper path.We don’t easily make mistakes in their presence fearing of their criticism and mockery.I am correcting myself from their observations and allegations.My dad told me that
people never reach our expectations and its our mere mistake to expect from them.Thats true and I am learning it practically now.So far I have learnt enough from my college life and still
learning. I hope I will learn much more without anymore being affected……………….

My innovations

The Magic of “WORDS”

The power of words are ultimate and can never be compared with any other media……..even a person sitting beside may not be able to console your grief but  a piece of paper with few consoling words affects a lot……so i always love words which carry affection n meaning with them coz people never reach our expectations up to the mark  so we imagine their reactions according to our satisfaction while reading them…….

I never felt anyone so close to my heart……..
then I found u n the bounds got banished
I never expected anything from anyone …….
then I found u n my expectations got no bounds
I never trusted anyone blindly til now……..
then I found u n im totally blind in trusting u
finally I decided not to leave u in my life…
then I found u leaving me with a gentle smile on face
n a wave saying that i am just a part of your life and not your life…
then I decided never to change my decisions in life
n you are left in my heart forever…………
don’t worry ill not let my heart stop because you are in it……………………

Before u let someone into your heart make sure that you are strong enough to let them go free because
life z full of unexpected things which can never be expected………….

Don’t ever dare to act near your dear ones because it’s not a big deal for them to find out the change but
the fact that you are acting give a lot of pain to them…………...

When u expect a lot u may not get anything
when u expect the least too u may not get anything
both results the same but the pain behind matters a lot……….
expectations always hurts……….

Think more than twice before u surrender yourself to someone else coz
it hurts a lot when u come to know that they don’t deserve your love………..

People with intelligence can defeat  by words but people with wisdom can defeat by heart……..the former wins the world while the latter wins the people………

When u care someone else other than me my heart beats faster……..
when u like someone else other than me my heart beats fastest …….
but if u forgo me for someone then my heart beats no more…….

Don’t complicate things when everything z in your hands……
once if the control z lost then there would be nothing left to compromise…….

The relation which z maintained by pain z never the real one……..
real one always removes pain n comforts us in all possible ways………

Talent z not only how u create things ………but
it also depends on how u improve the available ones successfully……….

Only a real mother can recognize the hunger of her child……..
in the same way only real friends can realize the unseen pain in your heart………
so never mis them in your life…………….

Punishments are never painful when they are from our dear ones…..
there is some caring affection concealed in them which is the most sweetest of al…….

Weakness is the unseen virus in us which makes us loose our wisdom……..
it has to be killed with strength of mind but not to be succumbed which may develope addiction…….

Mistakes of dear ones are not due to their negligence but for the little fight they get with us which reminds them that there is someone who corrects them  and care for them……….

Temptation is the most dangerous of all emotions…….
always have a good control on it because its possible to avoid the emotion but never the result of it…………

You can share your happiness with everyone but u share your sadness only with your loved ones……….
I would always love to be one of your loved ones forever…………..

A feeling can live no longer if it’s not felt by the heart u meant.but my feeling for you never ends though u don’t feel it back for me.go as far as you can my heart always feels your presence………

I am not lucky to have you as my friend but i am sure you are lucky for having me because I will never let you love me more than i do.my love is eccentric and eternal………

you are lucky to be loved by someone but you are luckiest if you are able to carry the luck throughout your life.don’t upset the heart which cares you the most………

Feel every moment of Ur life,treasure every thing u come across.Everything is precious in your life because none other than u can live your life to the fullest…..

The most loving heart once broken will never get back to normal because it may stick back to get its shape but can’t withstand the pain that is already created in it……..

Treasure the ones who always likes you and thinks of you….once they are lost you can never impress of make them love you back for a lifetime……..

What if you have money but no pleasure,what if you have heart but no love,what if you have people around but no friends,it’s just like having birth but no life……..

When you like a person never go for measurements in doing anything for them.counting makes u conscious and creates distance between dear ones……….

Silly interests of our dear ones makes a lot of difference when we care them and show our concern to them,it’s the easiest way to show our love to our loved ones…….

you never satisfied me and felt me important but still i can never leave you because many enter our life but very few enter our hearts like you….we need no reason to treasure such people….

Dont miss the heart which loves you,don’t forget the heart which cares for you,don’t hurt the heart which stays with you,don’t leave the heart which beats for you…….

Friendship is all about finding each other in heart and understanding wholeheartedly but  not about creating oneself for the understanding of other…….

memory is a boon to man and sometimes is a curse as well………….we remember somethings and cherish them and at the same time we hurt ourselves not being able to forget some……

there is no happiness without you beside……..there is no relief without your shoulder under my tears……….there is no breath without you in my life….so there is no me without you in this world….

when you care about someone then it shows your responsibility but when you worry about someone then it
shows your love for them…..feel the difference to make smart choices……

never let your loved ones fall out of your hands with ignorance.once they are lost you can never price
them back because nothing can repay the effect of your ignorance to them……

perfection should not be born by the appreciation of others but it is what we find in us when we satisfy
our ideals in our deeds…….

I don’t know y I like you so much but I can say how much….it is just as much as i long for my last
breath of my life………please dont kill me alive by leaving me alone……..

happiness is not the one we get when something happens as we expect …..it is the one we get when we
succeed in doing something forgetting that we are going to succeed…..

whats tastier than losing a game with your dear one…..whats dearer than surprising your sweet one….
whats sweeter than waiting for your loved one…….whats lovable than waiting for all these things to
happen in your life…….

Its the family which pulls you back when you have lot of chances in your hands to grow up but sometimes its the same family which standby you when you have nothing left in your hands……

If your loved 1s r mad at you for very silly reasons n show der anger den dat means dey are not satisfied with your love n concern so love them more n get more

The beauty of friendship lies in the way we care each other and how we think of each other every moment.Friend is the one who loves you as much as you love yourself…….

Mother is the one who dares to see the death with happiness to present you this life.Serve her as much as possible and serve her as long as possible……..

First dare to show your worst side to someone you bother about and if its understood well then they are worth of your best side..

i mask my emotions so that people would like me….i mask my thoughts so that they would talk to me everytime…i mask my appeal so that they would adore me……finally i have a lot of them who loves me but none left to love the real me and i am left alone inside…..

dont change yourself for someone ……once you make it a habit you would be left unidentified for yourself forever……

expecting something is the most unreliable character in the world because the pain from doing so can never be pacified and the regrets never heals the pain back…..

when you try for something desperately you lose interest in it after winning it and when something comes to you as a surprise its something which you are never interested in…….

mind loads loads of characters in life but never remembers everyone but my heart knows no logics that it registers everyone no matter what impact they create……

to die while you try makes you a winner rather than being a loser giving up in the middle….be a warrior and die in the battle rather than being a coward who have turned back with fear…….

i look like a mountain to the world which seems to be impossible to reach the top while i am like a garden to near ones where they can play,relax and destroy too….

i cry for your negligence as much as i care your concern..my heart aches for your absence as much as i adore your presence every second….everything matters in life……

i am sick of fooling myself again and again by expressing my feelings to you…but strangely i am never tired of loving you this is called purity with insanity…..

my views

check YOURSELF……..

According to my opinion n knowledge a meaningful person has to possess the following characters n qualities which would always enhance their success n mark their position in the world as unique…………

1.should always try to be clear of our thoughts n attitude which will help us to stay out of confusion.

2.should never try to pretend things n manipulate even for the sake of the good of others.such qualities would destruct the trust n confidence of others on us.

3.should help others n attend their problems without ourselves being affected.should look ones safety before being a helping hand to others.

4.should respect others n understand n accept their views though we are not congruent with their opinions.

5.should perceive things as they are n never cheat ourselves imagining things n knowing the truth subconsciously.

6.should think thousand times before believing something against others n criticizing them.

7.should never hurt or corner others feelings which we feel that it pains a lot when its in our case.

8.always be good as long as possible n untill we are conscious n awake.

……………………..above all jus be the way with others in the way u expect  them to be with u.

i am totally confident that above qualities would help a person to the peak to have good relationship with others n have a good n satisfied life in this society.i follow them thoroughly n always try to make up myself up to the mark and be happy without disturbing others in any way.